So I was going to blog about two things today: how freaking awkward I am after years of being a party-goer and flirt, and how I need to start going to the gym again so I need gym-goer advice.
Strangely enough, two of my sisters have blogged about those EXACT TOPICS!
Nikki just started working out again! Way to go!
Kristina is retardedly awkward!! No way me too!
I'll just throw in a few things I'd mention on the side
FIRST
-What gym do I choose? How expensive should I expect it to be? Is it cheaper if you sign up with another person? I'm pretty sure I could get the mancandy to go in on it with me.
AND SECOND
-Why am I so awkward? I used to know about EVERY party that happened. I had get-togethers to attend EVERY NIGHT. Literally every night. My mondays were some of the craziest nights I've ever had. You know WHY I'm so awkward? I have a serious boyfriend.
Granted, having a boyfriend doesn't automatically make you antisocial; however, this is the longest relationship I've EVER had (going on 4 months!) and it is still taking some getting used to. That means I have to change alot of my basic behaviors, and since I really don't want to screw it up I'm walking on eggshells in social situations.
This is how I was when we first started dating:
"What? I have to take another person's life into consideration? I can't just pick up and move whenever I want? I can't get free meals out of random boys because I'm such an amazing flirt? I can't be best friends with my ex boyfriend?"
I always thought some things were legitimately ok, and that if a guy had a problem with it he was being a baby. It turns out, though, that in a mature relationship:
-you just DON'T flirt (not if you can help it)
-you NEVER leave the state without telling someone
-and aside from a random text here and there, talking with your ex is not cool.
Some of those things may seem like common sense, but my longest relationship prior to this one was two months long, and I knew it wasn't going anywhere so I did whatever the crap I wanted.
Not only is this one lasting longer than usual, but it's actually healthy, fun and challenging all at once.
Yaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy :)
1 comment:
i'm so happy for you guys. seriously. also, i remember when we talked about all the sacrifices that you weren't used to making, but it's worth it for someone you love.. and you now know this. (:
welcome to the love boat, brooke. and we'll have to do some dates together when we get back. (:
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